Whatever has happened to you like
1) Being abuse
2) Being bullied at school
You need to forgive the person, because other wise, you are hurting yourself and the anger that you have because eat away at you. What you need to do, is forgive , forgive them, and succeed at what you are doing. I do this, I have to keep forgiving, my Dad for destroying my childhood, and my education. But know I succeed at writing my web site and I knit alot, and I am trying to be the better person
The abuse stopped a long time ago, and I need to heal my inner child all with God and Jesus help I don't want tio be merisable at all, but HAPPY. Why let any one else destroy any more.
Anger and child abuse
I think that it is very important for you to forgive the abuser.Why?...
..because it stops the bitterness that you have inside your soul and it is very necessary on your healing journey. Letting go of all the bitterness will help you to enjoy your life...
...and it is essential, otherwise you explode at your children, husband and all who really love and like you. And You wont being carrying around this bitterness inside you.The abuser does not really care about how you feel and he has carried on with his life. While you are left being bitter, so you need to forgive (and I did not say forget) Forgiveness will help you to heal from what has happened to you and you will be the better for it.
Keeping the anger inside of you can destroy your enjoyment of life. Yes I know that what happened to you was horrid and may have affected you, but forgiveness of what he did is healthy and the depression you may have will go in time. Hanging on to the pain will make you become a bitter horrid person like my neighbour..
I also need to forgive my mother for not knowing what happened to me, and not being able to protect me fromthe abuse Dad did to me. She was also hurt by him too. Forgiving the person for the horrid damage they pu you through is part of healing and going forward.
Forgiving the person, makes you the better person inside your soul. And God willl try and help you. Holding on to the pain is wrong, and God is a full of love and loves you "Let Him in Too Heal You" You are a great person.
God and Jesus Loves You.
The screaming as a child was no one listened and children have ways of talking. . Being abused leaves us with lots of scars and loss e.g;
Anger.
Losing your childhood.
Lost all your dreams or never were able to have them.
No real friends who understand you.
No hope.
There are two types of Denial:
Denial of the abuse is not good, because you will always be stuck and never fully enjoying your live. And then you are letting the abuser win and not letting God and Jesus into your life.
Also living in denial or blanking out the past is one way people deal with a horrid past.
Anger.
Losing your childhood.
Lost all your dreams or never were able to have them.
No real friends who understand you.
No hope.
Losing your childhood.
Lost all your dreams or never were able to have them.
No real friends who understand you.
No hope.
You want something bad to happen, well it is the pattern of your past, and just maybe nothing is really wrong except you are doing fine.
Yes you can turn everything around with God and Jesus and really and truly forgive the abuser because it is essential to letting go of your anger and then you can enjoy the life God and Jesus has made for you. Well you have one life why not enjoy everyday.
Why not enjoy everyday?
You can actually!
Find your dreams and go for them.
Enjoy your life to the full.
Believe that life can be great.
You can be confront them if it helps you to come to terms with what they did to you. Make sure you do not go alone, have support with you.You must be in control of all this, and they must respect your decisions. You can enjoy your life and make it wonderful.
This all takes time and sometimes time to sink in, do not rush, and at first it will be very difficult to turn your life around with all the changes you want to make but it is POSSIBLE.
Really believe in God and Jesus and Give Him your troubles and let Him help you.
If who have done well with anything give yourself some praise - it's very important to love yourself.
God loves you inside and out, and knows you and loves you.
Forgiving which I have written on another page is very very very important, because YOU will feel better, in your soul.
Staying bitter is not what god wants, and it stops you from going forward. I did not say forget BUT forgiveness is necessary.
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