I recenlty heard on a radio station that at nursey,that children as young as 3 were being sexually abused by staff. This did happen a long time ago,but the mother was blaiming herself for not protecting her daugther. And the lady could not get on with her life her marriage was ruid too.
What i would say to her is that she is letting the abuser win. Instead she maybe should write a web site or a charity where she could help those others families where this is still going on. I know how damaging being abused seually does to you. I was abused, but why should i let that pig win .
I think that talking about staff at any nusery or school is very imporant.i talk to my children now that they are much older.