Sexual problem Abuse.
When you have been been abused you might find sex difficult even if you with the man or woman of your dreams.
Why am I talking about this?
Sometimes we find a person who we think is right for us but because of the abuse you and me have suffered from we accidental look for people to hurt us again. We get into abusive relationships because you and I think that is all
Sexual problem Abuse.: My Story To You.I have flash backs when I am close to my partner and I space out sometimes when I am close to my partner. I wanted to share this with all of you and to know that you are not alone.
I have problems watching crude jokes on television and when someone makes a crude joke that I know I look like an idiot because I do not understand. But I think our minds protect you and me from understanding the joke because of our past pain.
Sexual problem Abuse: Trained from the Past.
I think that you and me have been trained by the abuse that the abuser put you and me through to space out and when you and me are close to our partners we are still doing the same thing spacing out because the abuse was so very painful.
Sexual problem Abuse: Changing the past to The Present.
What I am trying to say to you is that what you and me went through was not our fault and it was wrong what happened to you and me.
When you are with the man or woman of your dreams and you are making love with them and you feel that you are about to start spacing out try to stay in the present.
And maybe talk to you partner so that they can help you know that you are fine. Making love should be a pleasant experience not a painful experience.
Sexual problem Abuse: Letting God and Jesus In to Your Life.
I have prayed to God and Jesus for help and without Them I would;d be nowhere. I need God and Jesus in my life.
Or is it better being stuck and depressed and letting the devil and the abuser win even more? I like the other better where God and Jesus are always in my life helping me to make a full recover and enjoy my live to the full.
It is not easy healing but if you think of it as an adventure and how happy each step of healing is it is deficiently better than being depressed.
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