Inner child: Lost from child abuse.
When you have been through a trauma such as being abused a child YOU might lose your chlidhood and have to grow upvery quickly. And sometimes I feel my inner screaming out for hugs, teddies. I have learnt to have fun and that helps little me to heal and feelbetter.
Also you might have felt that you had to be someone else, and within you is stuck and he or she has to grow up quickly than and your childhood disappears and you become an adult.
Torn in 2
When you have been abused, you seem to have to rush and grow up and forget about being a child. So you missed out on all your childhood fun. And every know and then, your inner child is screaming, to say hello, help me heal.
I do not know if you have ever felt like this but inside of me every know and then I hear my inner child screaming out aloud for someone to hear her. When you have been abused the abuser has destroyed your childhood and he has taken it away.
the inner child.
When you have been abused you lose your childhood.
It has been taken away beyond your control.
My Story to You.
Dad sexually abused me as a child and so I lost my childhood and became an adult.
A bad habit is I scream when I am in pain. (When you have been abused no one knows , so the little girl inside is screaming for the pain to stop.) Unfortunetly no one can see the sexual abuse that happens, but your eyes change from being happy to sad..Your school work might be affected and you might not have any friends. It is like losing a best friend but you are grieving your lost child.
Recovery: Yes there a way to recovery your inner child?
I think yes. What you need to do ;e.g
Acknowledge that you have lost your childhood.
2)Take control of yourself and be a mother to your inner child.
3)Look after yourself and try to grow up and be an adult.to your inner child
4)You can not go back and be a kid.
5)Ask God and Jesus into your life and let Him heal you.
Being A Mother to Your Inner Child
When your are feeling that your inner child is screaming i would recommend giving her a cuddle and telling her everything is fine and no one can hurt her any more. You have to help your inner child grow up and be a kid as well and find you .
Breaking Free and Being Me
When the abuse was happening, my hole life was turned upside down, and becoming women rather than having a childhood vanished. I would have loved to climb trees, . Dad even though he abused me, showed me how to play snooker, table tennis? went swimming with us, taught me cycling outside. Mother did not of thi. She taught us card games, instead of watching television, because Dad would shake at the television. We had to lose on purpose so he did not get angry. Mother had a mood that stopped me from studying and doing ha I wanted, so I was bored most of the time.
You know number 3 on my training course about hair, is very hard one for me and having fun. when the abuse was happening.
I like tom boy hair styles but I also like putting it up. I love snooker, and all tom boy things. At my birthday recently I tried to play pool and I loved it, but at the back of my mind was am I going to be told off for having fun. I was not allowed fun at home as a child, mother did not like me having fun, Dad did like laughing
.I have this child within me that needs to have fun, and because of the abuse that happened to me, it turned my life into an adult. So I lost my childhood and became this anxious person which needs to heal and have fun and be an adult. Everyone who knows me, sees sometime this anxoius person who is actually fun and out going.
Having green jamine tea is very relaxing. Also cooking, cycling, whatching a good film playing cards and learning to focus is necessary. As a child we need focus.
I have a web site on astronomy and electronics which I love to
I love swimming
Healing from what happened is hard, but finding that that because you have been abused, and that have turned you around, you can still find that there is more to you than what happened.
Still Finding You
Yes is might make you anxoius, but going through being anxoius and succeeding is very important. I love swimming and yes I am anxoius about it.
www.dream-science.org
I like train sets I think, planes, swimmig I love and making jumpers because that is very relaxing too.
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